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1. When you first come in contact with a Filipina, you should be patient with the lack of frequency that they come online. Most Filipina rely on the nearest internet cafe to go online. They do not get to the internet cafe everyday. The internet cafe cost money along with the travel expenses to get there since most Filipina do not drive cars but rely on public transportation.
2. When you first talk to the Filipina, take things slow and don't expect them to jump into exchanging email addresses right away. Trust online takes time. Online Dating is a slow process. If something is moving fast, slow it down. You don't even know each other, use the Internet to slowly get to know each other.
3. If someone that you have just met online asks for financial help. You need to remember that you have just met online and not in person. You don't even know if they are telling you the truth. You are best to not give financial assistance even though it is your belief to help people in need.
4. Talking to someone from a foreign country means that the language can be misunderstood. Even the English language has variations from country to country due to slang. When talking to a Filipina, remember that English is their 2nd or even 3rd language and that they may not understand exactly what you have said or you may not understand exactly what they have said to you.
5. You should ask for more than one photo of the person as you get to know them A letter to each other via snail male with photos enclosed is always good.
6. As you get to know each other talk about previous relationships and talk about previous marriages in detail. The most important issue with a previous marriage is whether the marriage is legally dissolved. A person can say ex-spouse but did they legally finalize the divorce or annulment. Keep in mind that divorce is illegal in the Philippines, only anullments can be attained. |
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